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Just dropping a shout out to my Fallout brother-in-arms. Carry on and keep spreading the truth and glory of the vault dweller!


written by uhohzombies  | 2 months 1 week ago | CH
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Interesting, I do see some likness.

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Do you know your avatar makes you look exactly like John Sessions?


written by youdiejoe  | 2 months 2 weeks ago | CH
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Where is your avatar from?


written by Peroxide  | 2 months 2 weeks ago | CH
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thanks i didn't made it though, found it on the net somewhere... and, yeah, i was lol when i first saw it too

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Your avatar is glorious beyond words.


written by kulpims  | 3 months 2 weeks ago | CH
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I agree with you in principle however, the reality is that what you suggest opens up a new can of worms; more lawsuits based on intent. A man can SAY he is supportive of the idea of having a child with a woman but what happens once the pregnancy reaches the third trimester and he changes his mind? or after the baby is born? Then it is his word against his. Same for if he says he doesn't want it then she gets an abortion and he then can sue her? The problem is, when a baby is born there are only two certainties: the mother wanted to have the baby and the baby is of her blood. Everything beyond that is he said/she said. And that's the reason why we err on the side of the mother; because ultimately, when a woman has a baby we KNOW she wanted it (at least initially) and we can only make assumptions about the father. Before modern birth control and Roe vs Wade we could assume a man must have had some intent because the connection between sex and impregnation was much stronger.
When there is a way to prove the intent of the man upon delivery, then we can talk about enforcing a man's wishes (including allowing the man to abdicate parental responsibility and rights) until then, in the interests of the child, we must have things be "unfair"

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We're not adjudicating in the interests of the man; we're adjudicating in the interests of correct moral principle.

Whether a child is disadvantaged by the lack of a father is not the issue; there is no law or, more importantly, moral imperative against single parenting. Neither is the man the issue, he had nothing to do with the decision to have a child.

This needs to be elaborated upon. Having sex with or without birth control is not in itself a procreative act. There is always the option of abortion in the case of pregnancy, even in uncivilised (anti-abortion) or poor countries one could always 'leave the baby out for the wolves' or similar. Therefore, a conscious or unconscious decision not to abort, i.e. the deliberate decision to have a child, is an integral part of every birth. Unintuitively, simply conceiving does not make one a parent.

I agree with you when you say that a person who takes action leading to the birth of a child is responsible for that child. In the example we are discussing, only the mother has taken that action, only she has refused an abortion, therefore only she is responsible for the child. Consider that if both the mother and father agreed to abort, neither of them would be responsible for the support of a child that wouldn't exist. The father's actions are the same in both cases, consequently his responsibilities must be the same.

It is not acceptable to force the burden of a child on someone who hasn't chosen it. Far better to force an abortion on the woman if that were the only other option, but I'm suggesting it isn't. Where a person chooses to have a child without a partner that is their decision and their responsibility alone. If they can't afford to support that child as they would like, that is unfortunate. You can only legislate so far against bad decision-making.

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because then you are adjudicating in the interest of the man and THE CHILD suffers. your suggestion puts it as if its "person who opposes abortion" versus "person who doesn't oppose abortion" or mother versus father etc but its not about them, its about the child.

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I don't see why men who don't want children shouldn't say exactly that, smibbo. If birth control fails, have an abortion. If the woman refuses an abortion, the man should be able to make a legal declaration refusing parental rights and responsibilities to the child.



written by smibbo  | 3 months 2 weeks ago | CH
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because then you are adjudicating in the interest of the man and THE CHILD suffers. your suggestion puts it as if its "person who opposes abortion" versus "person who doesn't oppose abortion" or mother versus father etc but its not about them, its about the child.

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I don't see why men who don't want children shouldn't say exactly that, smibbo. If birth control fails, have an abortion. If the woman refuses an abortion, the man should be able to make a legal declaration refusing parental rights and responsibilities to the child.


written by smibbo  | 3 months 2 weeks ago | CH
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You

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No.


written by swampgirl  | 4 months 2 weeks ago | CH
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Thanks for the dupe find

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Dupe.

*discard



written by Thylan  | 4 months 3 weeks ago | CH
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I KNEW we had more Metallica fans here!

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Thanks for the save firefly. Shame it doesn't seem to be going anywhere.


written by firefly  | 5 months 2 weeks ago | CH
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You must be kidding me.
You make it sound like you think killing all theists would be a good thing.

Tell you what, lets look at Albert Einstein. I believe he was human. Would you disagree?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Albert_Einstein#Religious_views

He may not have believed in a personal God, but he did believe there was a God.

Anyhow, I found some other links you may find interesting.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/human

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/reason

You know, I looked it over and not one thing in all those definitions would lead me to believe that theists have a lesser amount of reason or are less of a human being.

Listen, I don't know what kind of person you are, but to consider a human being to be anything less than that simply because of his or her beliefs seems incredibly wrong to me.

When one group is no longer considered human, atrocities tend to happen.

On a lighter note, I tend to think that some theist beliefs aren't all that void of reason. Would you care to argue?

In reply to this comment by gorillaman:
Nothing wrong with 'Final Solution kind of things' in principle, that one was just misconceived.

Theists aren't human; human minds are defined by their capacity for reason while the theist defines itself by faith, the antithesis of reason, and therefore cannot be considered human. Elementary.

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I can understand that you do not like what those idiots over at Westboro do to there kids, but that last sentence in your comment is very troubling.

Do not start to see any group as less human.
Ever.
Bad things tend to happen afterwards.
"Final Solution" kind of things.

And just F.Y.I. not all theology teaches kids to murder.



written by SilentPoet  | 6 months 1 week ago | CH
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Teaching a child religion of any sort is not just child abuse, it's murder. The theist lays its eggs in the mind of a beautiful human child, the eggs hatch into monster larvae, which eventually consume the mind and use the body to murder more children. Theists have nothing in common with human beings.

I can understand that you do not like what those idiots over at Westboro do to there kids, but that last sentence in your comment is very troubling.

Do not start to see any group as less human.
Ever.
Bad things tend to happen afterwards.
"Final Solution" kind of things.

And just F.Y.I. not all theology teaches kids to murder.


written by SilentPoet  | 6 months 1 week ago | CH
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how did you do it. this is driving my crazy

Q

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OMG she's going anti-clockwise. Finally.


written by qruel  | 6 months 3 weeks ago | CH
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I don't know if you've seen this, but I thought you might like it. http://www.videosift.com/video/Cops-say-legalize-drugs-ask-them-why


written by MarineGunrock  | 7 months 2 weeks ago | CH
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That's a baller pic.
War, war never changes.


written by waxwing_slain  | 7 months 3 weeks ago | CH
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No problem, I couldn't resist.

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I love you for saving Two Soups. Thanks.


written by gorgonheap  | 8 months 1 week ago | CH
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